Author Archives: Chris

I'm a thirty year old man who likes Medicine For Melancholy.

Skinny Legs.

The worst part of finding (or being found by) the love of your life is skinny calves. Seriously, that’s the worst part. You work out daily, weekly, monthly, whenever you have absolutely nothing else in the world to do on the entire flat earth, and still ...

Mistaken Identity.

I have been mistaken for many things and many people in my brief and long 32 years. Sometimes the things or people I am mistaken for can be viewed through the lens of self identify as innocuous. Sometimes the things or the people I am mistaken for can be ...

Confidence Levels.

Listen, I don’t care what anyone tells you, confidence is a fluid thing. There is no one on Earth who is confident about 100 percent of things, 100 percent of the time. It just isn’t happening. Even Kevin Durant misses free-throws sometimes. E ...

Help Me Understand.

In my 32nd year of life I have finally concluded that I don’t know everything. I’m sure you can tell by my writings or if you’ve ever had a conversation with me, but I may have a touch of “smartest guy in the room” syndrome o ...

Move It Along, You Buster.

I haven’t always been the suave and debonair man you never get to see in the dreams I have. Oh yes, there was a point when I had trouble expressing my interest in a woman. But there was a time when all the stars aligned and I knew that God Shamgod w ...

Good Enough.

This is a quick post, but I just had some random thoughts. Have you ever felt just not good enough? I have. All the time. I’m not sure what it is, but my entire life I’ve felt like I wasn’t good enough at anything. There has, really, nev ...

Can You Do Anything?.

Last week, Deshawnt wrote a post about what it takes to be successful. Although I don’t agree with the entirety of his thesis, I can totally see his point and his reasoning. Life is hard, full of ups and downs and disappointments. I have had plenty ...